Anything,
we are taught, can be accomplished with the right attitude. Attitudes, though, come in varying degrees,
particularly when they are part of a relationship with another person.
There are
three categories of human attitude, writes Meera
Seshadri. The first category includes those who have a
''You're right, I'm wrong'' attitude.
The second category has an ''I'm right, you're wrong'' attitude. The third group believes in ''You're right,
so am I.''
Those under "You're right, I'm wrong" category are
generally subservient and agree easily with views of other people. Those who belong to "I'm right, you're
wrong" category are often vocal and vehement. They often embark on 'sparring sessions' with
everyone just to prove what they believe is universally true.
Those who believe "You're right and so am I" are the
most prudent, pragmatic and wise. Though
they are prepared to assimilate good points from other people (and even
acknowledge another’s good qualities), they live life on self-dictated
terms. Being good listeners, they
respect other viewpoints but finally do what they deem to be right. They never take devious routes to attain
success, nor do they pull someone down so they to climb the ladder. They are so confident of themselves that they
don't bother proving their skills and intelligence before others.
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